An Introvert’s Guide to Becoming More Social

 “People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.” – Joseph F Newton

What does it mean when a person is an introvert?

Introvert comes from Latin intro-, "inward," and vertere, "turning." It describes a person who inclines to turn inward mentally. Introverts sometimes avoid large groups of people, feeling more energized by time alone. The opposite of an introvert is an extrovert, who finds energy in interactions with others.

Introvert mean shy and timid

Is the world custom-made for extroverts?

Yes it is. It’s unquestionably cooler to be a confident person who knows how to express his feelings and say directly what you think.

 You must have heard your teachers saying: “Be pleasant and polite; people will notice you and your values.” That’s not true at all! If you want to achieve something at school or at work, you have to know how to characterize your principles fine.

Being social and a good communicator can open many doors and simply make you happier.

It took a lot of exercise and mental work to become more social.  It’s not a process that’s gifted overnight. It’s a process of  self-motivating and implants  in many small steps

Start small

Taking sudden huge steps will not help. To become more social you need to learn how to enlarge and expand your comfort zone, gradually. If you have an inclination to do things alone or with an old friend, just try going a step further.  Go to a place where there’ll be sufficient people you don’t know well.  Don’t sit in a circle and talk to only the people you know. Use gatherings with friends as an chance to talk to people who are in your circle but you don’t are not familiar with them.

Interact with unfamiliar people

Master interacting with people you’re unfamiliar with so you can speak to people who you actually want to get to know later. Find your own way to approach strangers and open your mind to them.

 Don’t get overwhelmed by those who speak too much

You must have heard “barking dogs seldom bite?” Don’t let yourself believe that people who speak too much are the only ones who have anything really important to say. It’s high time for you to believe that you do too.

Learn to act like likeable people do

If you want encouragement for becoming attractive and more social you need positive feedback from others. There are certain things all likeable people have in common. Try to incorporate some new ways of communication.

Smile a lot. There’s no person in the world who doesn’t like an honest smile. If you’re not used to it, train in front of the mirror every day.

Speak loud and clear so people don’t have to struggle to understand what you’re saying.

 Don’t be afraid of silence and don’t control yourself all the time

Follow these tips and convert yourself into an extrovert from an introvert .

Live life to the fullest .